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It's good to be a child, a schoolchild, a student. At a young age, you don’t have to think about friendship and work on relationships. Friends just exist because it happened that way.
From birth we live the life that our parents chose for us. This is how our friends live, and the differences are not so significant as to interfere with friendship. So friends will definitely appear. During our student years, we find ourselves in an environment ideal for forming friendships. It is easy to comply with all the necessary conditions for strong friendship. Sociologists believe that there are three of them:
- Proximity (in a geographical sense).
- Constant unplanned meetings.
- Something that allows you to relax in the presence of another person and begin to trust him.
So the number of friends in universities and colleges is growing. Maybe they're real, maybe this relationship won't last. But you don't do anything special to turn them on or maintain them. They fold themselves, you are only an observer.
One day, student life ends. The people you communicate with take their places in your environment, each in their own social circle. It looks something like this:
Imagine that your life is a mountain. You are at the top. In the green sector - friends of the first circle. Those who became your brother or sister. These are the closest people: they are the first to know about all the events in your life, you love them with all their flaws, they give a speech at your wedding, you know them inside and out. This relationship is eternal. Even if you don’t communicate for months, every meeting proves that nothing has changed.
Unfortunately, life is such that your worst enemies are also included in the first circle. People who can ruin your day with one sharp remark because only they know where to hit. These are people towards whom you feel burning irritation, envy, with whom you compete. In the first round the stakes are high.
Below, in the yellow zone, are friends of the second circle. These are just good friends. Relations with them are much calmer than with brothers and sisters from the first circle. They may invite you to the wedding, but not as a witness. If you live in the same city, you meet once or twice a month with great pleasure, but if someone moves away, you may not speak to each other for a year or two. And if something important happened in their life, mutual friends will tell you about it.
Even lower down the slope is the orange zone, where fake friends are located. You can sit together in a cafe over a cup of tea and decide that you should meet again, but five years will pass and it turns out that during this time you have not drank any more tea together. Such relationships exist in a large company or on social networks. Even if someone from this circle suddenly inherits a million, you won’t care much. Sexual partners for one night appear from the orange zone.
The third circle smoothly flows into the huge category of acquaintances. It contains people with whom you would stop to exchange a few words if you ran into them on the street. You send them business letters, but you won’t meet them at the movies. If you hear that something bad happened to one of them, you may sigh sadly, although in reality you don’t care at all.
Finally, your acquaintances disappear into a sea of strangers.
Depending on your personality and how you've spent the last 25 years, your mountains may look different.
For example, this is what the life of a person looks like who doesn’t let anyone get close to him.
Or a person who tries to be everyone's best friend.
Even the last sociopath has his own mountain.
No matter how your mountain looks, once you leave your youth behind, sooner or later (usually between the ages of 25 and 30) there comes a day when you realize that making friends has become difficult.
Without a doubt, friends will appear (work, the company of a spouse, children will help), but it is unlikely that you will add them to the first circle of relatives or even to the second circle. People who meet as adults cannot spend all their days with each other or talk all night long. And this is necessary for the birth of such strong relationships. Over time, you realize that true friends appeared in your life by chance, spontaneously, and you didn’t do anything special for this.
You met them, firstly, not on purpose, and secondly, at a time when you still knew little about yourself. Therefore, the people closest to you are randomly assigned according to the schedule below.
As time passes, fewer and fewer people remain in squares 2–4. We grow up, we begin to respect ourselves more and set a higher bar in our interactions with other people.
But the fact remains that many relationships formed in our formative years stick with us. And even if friendship is far from ideal, among our close friends there are people whose communication no longer brings joy and meaning to life. We’ll talk about ideal friendship later, but for now let’s look at 10 types of strange friends that exist in our environment.
1. The friend who doesn't ask questions
You'll have a good day. Or bad. You will be happy at work or quit. You will fall in love. Or you will catch your loved one and kill both of them in a state of uncontrollable rage. It doesn't matter, because no event can be discussed with a friend who doesn't ask questions. Never, under any circumstances, will he become interested in your life. Why is he acting this way? There are three explanations.
- He is completely focused on himself and wants to discuss only his person.
- He is afraid to get close to people and does not want to talk about personal things (neither his own nor yours), he agrees to support only an abstract conversation.
- He knows that you are incredibly self-centered. If you ask a question, you will spend the entire evening talking only about yourself.
To make such a friendship meaningful, take just two steps.
First: if you are bored with this person, remove him from your first social circle. This is your green zone, it is sacred, self-obsessed people have nothing to do there. Move such a friend to the second or third level and enjoy rare meetings.
Second: keep communicating. You may even use such a friend in the dark. Meet once every couple of months, just don’t bring up personal topics in the conversation. Believe me, you can communicate with a person for many years, but still not even know if he has brothers and sisters.
2. A friend in a common company with whom you will not be alone
In any company there are a couple of people who do not communicate with each other one on one. Not in the sense that they don't talk because they don't like each other. They get along great. They simply have nothing in common except mutual friends. As soon as they are left alone in a room, they freeze, like stone statues.
There is nothing worse for them than being in the same car if the company gets somewhere by car. Smaller troubles happen all the time. For example, if such people were the first to arrive at the meeting place or when the third friend went to the toilet. It is not at all necessary that these people will never be able to make friends. Sometimes no one dares to take the first step and change the current state of things.
3. The friend who always laughs
This is a friend who is afraid of serious communication, so any meeting with him turns into a skit, and you should always be in high spirits when talking.
Sometimes the trick is that you have to laugh all the time. And constantly joke, make sarcastic remarks, otherwise your friend will be overcome by fear.
Another version of the always ironic friend is a person who loses his temper once you break through his shell and say something honest. Such people hate sincere interlocutors, because they force them to crawl out from behind the armor of sarcasm and irony and show their true colors.
Third version: your communication is described by the phrase “you’re cool, I’m even cooler, why isn’t the rest of the world so cool.” Of course, your friend does not consider you ideal. When he talks to someone else, he is already dissecting you. The trick is that you always have to be on his team. The only comfortable mode of coexistence is to stand on an imaginary pedestal together and throw mud at the world around us.
You can play along with such a friend and everything will be smooth, even if deep down you despise each other and yourself. Or you can take the liberty to disagree with him. For example, to protect a person from criticism. This will destroy your fragile team and cause a backlash. Your strange friend will most likely agree with you and say something like: “Well, yeah, I guess you're right.” Congratulations, this means that for the first time you have gained the respect of this person. It also means that behind your back he will criticize you five times more than before.
Whatever one may say, the mask of an always cheerful person is a wall behind which your friend hides so as not to let anyone get too close to him. If you have the strength to break the ice and calm such a sociopath, he can become a true friend. If a person is completely closed, then nothing can be done, such a friendship is doomed. Although if you like to constantly mock, then why not.
4. Friend of obligation
Think about a friend you rarely see. Before making an appointment, you spend a lot of time calling and texting to find a time that is convenient for both of you. But when you wake up in the morning and realize that a friendly dinner is on your schedule today, you are not at all happy about it.
Maybe you don’t want to be friends with this person, he even infuriates you. What you probably don't understand is that this friend doesn't want to see you either.
Friendship with mutual obligations assumes that this relationship is a burden for both. But everyone thinks that the other person really wants to see him. Therefore, there is no way you can make room in your schedule for the meeting.
When people want to communicate, they find opportunities and ways.
This friendship lasts because you don't think at all that you don't like this relationship. Or you consider meeting this person part of the story of your life. But even if you understand that you don’t want to communicate, you don’t know that your feelings are mutual. Tough friendships can last forever.
5. Friendzoned
This friendship could turn into, but your boyfriend or girlfriend does not look at you as a partner. Just a little bit is missing. You may also find yourself in a situation where someone loves you. No matter how you look at it, this is not the healthiest relationship in your life.
If you've fallen into the friend zone, isn't it time to get out of it? Even if you have to stop communicating. Because as long as you wait in such a relationship, you destroy your self-esteem and look like a little crying seal. Take a step, where is your self-respect? Perhaps it is a bold decision that will make the object of love look at you with different eyes.
If you are friendzoning, then know: there is a person in the world who suffers, and you like it. Because every time you see someone else's pain, your vile ego is filled with pleasure. You are so pleased that you are even ready to deliberately stir up someone else’s interest and not say yes or no in order to feed on the blood of a friend wounded to the very heart, like a vampire.
Go and do something else.
6. Historical friend
The historical friend was one of the first to appear to you, because you met when you were children. You had been friends for years, although you were an odd couple. Many old friends fall into this category. But a historical friend is someone you would never become friends with if you met now.
You don't like who this person has become, and it's mutual. You are no longer suitable for each other. Alas. You've been close friends since you were four years old, and there's nothing you can do about it.
7. A friend with whom you go in different directions
In childhood and as a student, most people your age are on the same level as you. But when it comes to getting ahead on your own, people take different paths in life, so that recent friends suddenly turn out to be completely different people.
Everyone over 30 goes through this phase. Someone thinks about how they will live at 50. And someone remains 20 years old. To some extent, turning thirty is akin to puberty, only in a different sense.
There are also hidden situations in which paths with friends diverge. Let's say Zhenya refuses material well-being, partly because of his vocation as an artist, partly so as not to envy rich people. And Sasha despises all bohemia, because he considers creative people to be slackers or envies their freedom of expression. Sasha and Zhenya have problems. Maybe they still like each other, but they can no longer be as close as before. Each of them's life paths challenge the other's, leading to awkward interactions. This also happens when your moral values do not coincide.
8. A friend with whom you don’t need enemies
“Enmity” harms you greatly. We are not talking about those cases when a friend experiences a pang of pleasure if you failed or broke up with your partner. And not even about those who envy your successes. These are toxic emotions, but even true friends can have them sometimes.
We are talking about real “hostility” - a relationship with a friend who sincerely wants to harm you. Just because he wants to.
Most likely, you have been communicating with your friend for a long time, the problems also did not start yesterday.
There are complex psychological reasons behind hatred. It is generated from the inner pain of your friend, from his shortcomings and regrets. And you, with your very existence, are hitting where it hurts.
A slightly less dark, but no less dangerous situation arises when a friend sees your weaknesses and sensitive points and constantly presses on them out of sadistic pleasure or to raise his own self-esteem.
Such a friend knows exactly how to hurt you, because you are similar in some way or something connects you.
Moreover, he will constantly ruin your life, at any opportunity, but so cleverly that you won’t even always notice it.
Be that as it may, if such a person appears among your friends, immediately throw him out of your social circle. The cooler your relationship becomes, the better. As the distance between you increases, the poisonous power of the other enemy dissolves.
9. Friend is a social media star
This person is not a star to anyone but you. Do you understand what I'm talking about. There are a few people whose social media pages are all too familiar to you. And these people have no idea that you are so interested in them. I must say that there are probably people who know when you changed your hairstyle, although you haven’t seen each other for seven years.
This is a friend from the third circle or just an acquaintance who ended up on the list of strange friends because you managed to make your relationship painful without even communicating with the person. It was necessary to be able to do this.
10. One-sided friendship
Friendship can be “skewed” in a bunch of ways. Someone is in a higher position in your pyramid of friends than you are in his pyramid. Some people want to communicate more than others.
One of the friends listens 90% of the time and speaks only 10% of the time, and if we are talking about difficulties, then communication is more like an appointment with a psychotherapist. In general, the balance between what you give and what you take from the relationship is off.
It is ideal when equal amounts are invested in friendship. But if the ratio turns out to be about 65/35, that’s okay too. Ultimately, the difference may be due to personal characteristics. Sometimes even a larger gap in who invests how much into a relationship isn't such a bad thing. But only if it suits both parties.
There are several questions whose answers reveal who is who in a friendship. When one person talks longer than another, does his friend interrupt the “talker”? Does one friend's opinion carry more weight? Is it okay for one of your friends to be mean to someone else sometimes?
Another check for lice is to find out who determines the mood in the company. Let's say friends meet, but they have different moods. Sooner or later the mood comes to a common denominator. Whose fortune usually wins? For example, Sasha is not in a good mood, Zhenya, on the contrary, is on the rise, and Valya adapts to Sasha and gets bored until Sasha starts having fun. But if Sasha is happy and Zhenya is moping, then Valya even forgets about his bad mood and tries to smile in order to get on the same wavelength as Sasha. In this example, Sasha has the strongest position among her friends.
It's not all bad
You might think that everything is bad. But let's mentally return to the graph with squares. We discussed those friends with whom relationships do not bring pleasure and benefit. That’s why we didn’t list the best options. But there is also a friendship that is worth the effort.
Nothing is perfect, but there is... Those, from communication with whom life becomes better for both parties. And if a friend falls into the first square of the graph and at the same time into the first circle of friends, this is one of the cornerstones on which your life is built.
Reliable friends make us happy, investing energy and time in such friendship is a life strategy for many years to come.
But closer to 30 we think we have:
- there is no time specifically for friends;
- the available time should be divided equally between people from the first and second circle of communication.
And we will fall into an eternal trap. When we don’t see our friends for a long time, we first start talking about something supposedly important. About career, marriage, family problems. Theoretically, after you discuss important issues, you can move on to jokes, chatter and friendship itself. In fact, if we don't make time for friends, and then start asking about all the news over the past months, then there is not a minute left to actually enjoy friendship and discuss anything other than recent events.
So, there are two items on the agenda:
- Think about your friends who are not in the first square. Move them off your friendly mountain. Not in the sense of stopping communicating with them altogether. Treat them well as before, don't forget about them. But if something doesn’t suit you, you don’t have to be with these people all the time. In general, clean the environment.
- Spend more time with real friends. If you are already about 30, then you are unlikely to find other true friends. They deserve to receive five, ten times more attention than other people they know. And just having lunch during a break is not enough. True friendship deserves a close atmosphere. Now go ahead and plan an evening with your best friend.
- The friendship of one reasonable person is more valuable than the friendship of all unreasonable people. (Democritus)
- We grow, we move on, but we will still always be best friends.
- How much charm our happiness would lose if no one rejoiced in it with us! How difficult it would be to bear our misfortunes without a friend who experiences them even more strongly than us! (Cicero)
- Those who need you will not forget about you.
- I have such friends that sometimes I am ready to shoot them. But if it weren’t for them, I would have shot myself long ago.
The best statuses about good friends
- Do not quickly become a friend, but once you have become one, try to remain one, because it is equally shameful to not have a single friend and to change many friends. (Isocrates)
- A true friend will always tell the truth to your face. Even the most bitter one, which we are not ready to admit.
- True friends do not compete with each other or envy each other, but help and are sincerely happy for each other.
- Statuses about good friends with meaning- A friend is a person with whom I can be sincere. In his presence I can think out loud. (R. Emerson)
- It is a value in our time to have a friend or friends who are not affected by time, weather or distance.
- Friends are people who, before coming to visit you, ask the question: “What do you want to eat?”
- My friends, family and love are not negotiable - they are perfect, period.
- Good friends go to those who know how to be a good friend themselves. (Niccolò Machiavelli)
- Friendship is a few idiots who absolutely cannot live without each other.
- Good friends will never let you do stupid things... alone.
- A true friend is with you when you are wrong. When you are right, everyone will be with you.
- A true friend should be our second self; he will never demand anything from a friend other than what is morally beautiful; Friendship is given to us by nature as an assistant in virtues, and not as a companion in vices. (Cicero)
- True friends can laugh at you and make fun of you, but they will never let others do the same.
- Not the friend who smears honey, but the one who tells the truth to your face.
- It's good when your friend is an optimist. It's somehow more fun to look into the future.
- He who is deprived of sincere friends is truly lonely. (Bacon Francis)
- The older you are, the narrower your circle of friends, but the more precious everyone in this circle is.
- It doesn't matter how many friends you have. What matters is how many of them will help you in difficult times and how many will remember you when they feel good.
- He is your friend who, in times of misfortune, helps you with deeds when there is a need for it. (Plautus)
- A true friend is a person who can forget about his good mood when you are in a bad mood.
- Good friends can be compared to a condom - reliable protection at that very moment. And the best ones can be compared to Viagra - they always pick you up when you fall.
- There are only a few true friends! This is, perhaps, a treasure that, alas, not everyone can dig up! And I really want friendship - without stabs in the back...
- Statuses about good friends- Not your friend who drinks at the table with you, but who will come to the rescue of anyone in misfortune. Whoever gives a firm hand will relieve you of worries. And he won’t even show that he helped you. (Omar Khayyam)
- I am happy, because there are people in my life to whom I can say: “I love you,” and each of them will understand me correctly - these people are called friends!
- If misfortune happens: you will be without arms or legs, then you will still be a person, but if suddenly there are no friends, then there will never be complete happiness.
Funny and sad, funny and funny quotes about friends with meaning, about how they are different: traitors, the best, good or just acquaintances.
- The best friend is the only one...
- I am everyone's friend, except those to whom I am an enemy...
- The main thing in life is not to lose people with whom you share the same type of cockroaches in your head.
- The phrase “He’s just my best friend” usually ends the same way: first the word “just” is dropped, then the “best friend” gradually disappears. He is mine.
- A friend is not the one who jumps out of the window after you, but the one who catches you from below.
- You may not be my husband, but you must be my friend!
- When friends tell you about their problems, they are not complaining, they are just trusting you...
- If your business prospers, everyone will be your friend; only when they are destroyed will you discover true friends...
- They say about fake friends I didn’t recognize it in time...
- Shout - anyone will hear, whisper - the nearest will hear. But only a true friend will hear you when you are silent...
- Morning will tell you best about meeting friends...
- If you can’t decide where to relax with friends, rent a sauna and don’t sweat it.
- The best friend is the one in front of whom you are not ashamed to appear without makeup.
- Friends come and go, but enemies accumulate.
- It is better to have a hundred friends than to have a hundred rubles.
- Friends are known in times of need... or when you need guarantors at the bank...
- A best friend is someone you can sit on the porch with, not say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had in your life.
- Childhood friends. If you don't break up in adolescence, it's for life.
- People who have common memories cannot be strangers...
- Friends are the people who will sit with you in a kilometer-long line to see the doctor...
- We became friends by accident! Fate brought us together by chance! And I want friendship to remain between us forever!
- Friends are a miracle sent from heaven, filling our lives with warmth, comfort and love.
- True friendship is when you walk down the street, stumble and fall, and your friend laughs and falls next to you.
- I remember my school friends as the most devoted ones...
- Friends are when you can suddenly come to a person and live with him.
- A true friend is like a bra: close to the heart and always supports...
- Friends are like good health: you don’t appreciate it until you lose it.
- A true friend is the music of your life!
- You need to tell only the truth about friends...
- They say about bad friends that they remain lonely forever...
- Friendship... is when you are completely different and complement each other perfectly
- A true friend is someone who holds your hand and feels your heart.
- Friendship doubles joys and cuts sorrows in half.
- A true friend is not the one who sympathizes with me in trouble, but the one who shares your joy without envy.
- You can say about real friends - they are my reflection...
- Friendship between a man and a woman weakens greatly when night falls.
- Unfaithful friends are like swallows that you only meet in the summer. This is a sundial that is only useful as long as the sun is shining.
- Friendship is one soul living in two bodies!
- Never let a small quarrel ruin a great friendship.
- Friendship is like a puzzle. Each of your friends is a piece... Some are on the edge, others are closer to the center, but each one adds a piece of themselves to us.
- You need to remember only good things about former friends if the friendship ended for a good reason...
- I love people who write and call just to chat, find out how you are doing, for no reason or reason.
- A friend cannot be bought, a friend can be sold.
- A friend is the kind of person you don’t have to tell anything to, she can still see in your eyes that you, idiot, have done something...
- A friend is someone who knows everything about you and loves you despite it
- The best moments are when you have your best friend nearby..
- A friend is someone who can sing the melody of your heart when you have forgotten the notes...
- Hiding things from friends is dangerous; but it’s even more dangerous not to hide anything from them.
- A friend is one soul living in two bodies...
- Only your best friends know better than you what's in your refrigerator...
- A friend is the only person with whom I can think out loud...
- I had many friends with whom I shared my time, but very few with whom I shared my heart.
- Indeed, childhood friends are those whose home phone numbers you still remember.
- It's good when a dog is a friend, but it's bad when a friend is a dog...
- Somehow Love and Friendship met. Love asked: “Why do you need you in the world if there is me?” And Friendship answered her: “To leave a smile where you leave tears...”
Topic of the article: serious and funny quotes about best friends, about betrayal in friendship and about making new friends.
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Tell your friends:
Every time I look into my friend’s eyes, I forget that we are just friends, not sisters.
Having many friends means having none. Rotterdam.
Do not consider the Charka's friends as friends, for they are your Charka's friends, not your friends. Unsur al-Maali
Of the twelve apostles, only Judas turned out to be a traitor. But. if he were in power, he would prove that the other eleven were traitors. Leon Trotsky
It is not so difficult to die for a friend, but where can one find a friend who would be worth dying for?
Sincerity in relationships, truth in communication - this is friendship. Suvorov.
The main thing in life is not to lose people with whom you share the same type of cockroaches in your head.
Tell me who your friend is, and I’ll tell you this about him
If you can’t decide where to relax with friends, rent a sauna and don’t sweat it.
When your friends are happy, you are happy too.
The question arises whether it is ever possible to prefer new friends to old ones. Unknown author
The best psychologist is a true friend.
I will definitely learn all the statuses of my friends and become a certified philosopher.
A friend is known by love, character, speech, and deeds. Unknown author
Morning will tell you best about meeting friends...
The Lord has given us relatives, but we, thank God, are free to choose our own friends. Mumford.
The best moments are when you have your best friend nearby..
If life has given you a friend, be sure to tell her that she is good.
Enemies can be defeated by turning them into friends. Salvador Dali
At the height of greatness, do not forget that a friend is in need. Friedrich Schiller
Friendship achieves the same result as courage, but only in a more pleasant way. Francis Bacon
Believing the oaths of a traitor is the same as believing the piety of the devil. Elizabeth I
If a friendship falls apart after the first push, stumbles over the first bump on the way, or crumbles into dust from the wind, this is not friendship at all. And so, it’s just pampering, friendship and nothing more.
Although women attach great importance to friendship, they forget about it; men are distrustful of her, and lovers are jealous. Paul Charles Joseph Bourget
I have friends who you don’t see for months, but they are still the best.
Men treat their male friendships like a soccer ball, which they throw anywhere and anyhow, but it doesn’t break. Women rush around with their female friendship like a crystal vase, and if it falls, it breaks into pieces, into small pieces. Anne Morrow Lindbergh
It's easy to forgive an enemy, but how to forgive a girlfriend? Wanda Blonska
A friend is the person who will never be offended by your joke and will always understand your sadness
A friend is someone who can sing the melody of your heart when you have forgotten the notes...
God is our true friend: He knows everything about us and yet does not stop loving us. Toyshibekov.
He who seeks friends deserves to find them. He who has no friends has never looked for them. G. Lessing
He who boasts that he has made many friends has never had a single friend. Samuel Taylor Coleridge
They say about bad friends that they remain lonely forever...
Many people talk about friends and friendship, but only a few are capable of friendship.
I love smart enemies. Salvador Dali
The happiness that has never deceived me is your friendship. Of all my passions, the only one that has remained unchanged is my friendship for you, for my friendship is a passion. Nikolay Platonovich
A tree is held together by its roots, and a person is held together by its friends. Proverb
If you are a slave, you cannot be a friend. If you are a tyrant, you cannot have friends. Nietzsche.
In friendship, as in love, what we don’t know more often brings happiness than what we know. Francois de La Rochefoucauld
Once upon a time, the sages gave us several important definitions of our friends, which will help us know a little better who is who
We know that friendship, like the rarest diamond, is always expensive and is not immune from fakes! After all, friendship is the greatest value that is available to everyone. And no proof is needed here. Probably in every generation there are many thinkers who wanted to reach the truth by studying this mystery.
In moments of joy, when we feel good and prosperous, friends recognize us, and, unfortunately, in moments of misfortune we recognize them. Sometimes it is very difficult to understand who your friend is, and in this matter we often rely on intuition. Like all people, our friends are different. Everyone has their own role in our life. To understand this, the sages once gave us several important definitions:
1. Friends are like food that we need daily.
Basic communication, like healthy sleep, is our vital necessity. We need to remember that there are these types of friends that we need every day. We just need them to listen to us, energize us and share their knowledge. They charge our vital batteries, and we often pay them back in kind.
2. Friends are like medicine - you look for them when you feel bad.
The pain cannot be tolerated. In the phone book we are looking for that pill that is sometimes unfairly forgotten. We know that they will come to our aid even in the most difficult situations, listen to us, help solve a problem, or simply become the shoulder we can rely on. And although we rarely think about them, we appreciate them for their responsiveness and willingness to help.
3. There are friends, like a disease - they themselves look for you
They are intrusive and annoying, always calling with stories about a bad husband, a bad boss or stupid “ancestors”. Such “friends” don’t care what they talk about. It is important for them to receive maximum vital energy, your advice, consolation, suggestions, support. They need to make it clear that they are needed, but your presence in their life is unimportant and insignificant! Their borders are the borders of their own world! Learn to feel the difference and surround yourself with worthy people.
4. But there are friends like air - you can’t see them, but they are always with you
It’s amazingly nice when you have a friend who is always by your side... A friend to whom you can tell everything, repeating the same thing a hundred times, but he still sits, listens and says that everything will be fine. When you can call at night, he will be glad to hear from you, when you are in a bad mood, he tries in any way to cheer you up.
Appreciate your friends, because a friend is one soul living in two bodies.